My sisters like all women, believe that you must hold on to something that belongs to you. Women in general, feel insecure that their man is going to study, out for lunch, or chat to another woman without them fearing that they will lose them. That is true and I know that for a fact, a lot of men fall for someone else that they “hang out” with. I understand the woman’s point of view and how they are insecure about all this.

My take on it is that if you have a sound relationship, your partner won’t do things like that. Why would they need to? If they do, they are not for you and that kind is not something you want to keep around. Someone true to you and themselves will draw a line between anything when the need arises.

You certainly can’t expect your gf/bf to drop everything and have a new life with you. That isn’t possible. Friends will always be there; your gf/bf may or may not. Let them hang out with their friends guy or girl. If they are going to leave you, no matter how tight your grasp, they will leave without hesitation. Be patient and secure with yourself so those around you will be too. You can’t keep a heart happy by chaining their leg to yours; they’ll find else where to nest at.